After Our Surrogate Gave Birth, My Mother Came to the Hospital to Congratulate Us – But When She Saw the Baby for the First Time, She Shouted, ‘You Can’t Keep This Baby!’

 

A recently surfaced video is offering a deeply personal glimpse into the final days of Noelia Castillo Ramos, the 25-year-old woman from Spain whose euthanasia case drew widespread international attention.

Noelia, who was from Barcelona, passed away on Thursday at an assisted living facility in Sant Pere de Ribes after a legal process that lasted more than a year and a half. Her decision followed years marked by trauma and ongoing physical pain.

In 2022, while living in a state-run residence for vulnerable young people, she became the victim of a violent assault involving multiple perpetrators. The attack left her with severe psychological trauma. In the aftermath, she attempted to take her own life. She survived, but the injuries left her paralyzed from the waist down.

“I didn’t report it because it was days before I tried to kill myself.”

From that point on, she lived with chronic pain and lasting emotional distress. In 2024, her request for euthanasia was approved under Spain’s legal framework.

Shortly before her death, a video was recorded showing Noelia attempting to walk with the help of crutches. Standing beside her was her father, Geronimo Castillo, encouraging her step by step and calling her a “machine” as she pushed forward. Despite the visible effort and strain, she managed a small smile.

“None of my family is in favor of euthanasia. But what about all the pain I’ve suffered during all these years?”

Her decision created a deep divide within her family. Her father opposed it and tried to intervene, something Noelia addressed openly in her final statements.

“The happiness of a father, a mother, or a sister cannot be more important than the life of a daughter.”

“He hasn’t respected my decision and he never will.”

Although her loved ones were able to say goodbye beforehand, Noelia chose to face the procedure alone. She reportedly kept four photographs beside her—memories she described as moments of happiness.

Before her passing, she shared a final message after contacting Antena 3, reflecting on the weight of everything she had endured.

“I’ve finally done it. Let’s see if I can finally rest because I can’t take this family anymore, the pain, everything that torments me from what I’ve been through.”

She also made clear that she did not wish for her story to be seen as a broader statement or symbol.

“I don’t want to be an example for anyone, it’s simply my life, and that’s all.”

Her case has sparked continued conversation around euthanasia laws, personal autonomy, and the lasting impact of trauma, while also highlighting the emotional complexities families face in such situations.

If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health challenges, it’s important to seek support. Reaching out to a trusted person, a medical professional, or a crisis support service can make a meaningful difference.